5 things that make women enjoy s@x so much

 

 Getting a woman to want to have sex with you is one of the most natural and easy things to do as a man.

For the purpose of this article, I am going to focus on getting a woman to have sex with you on the first night. Before I do that though, I want to begin by showing you some proof that most women are open to having sex on the first night or first date.

Statistics:

Singles in America Survey found that 55% of singles have sex on the first date.

Durex Condoms survey in Norway found that 70% of respondents had experienced a one-night stand.

Student Beans survey in the UK found that 51% of men and women admitted to having experienced a one-night stand.

The National Survey on Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles found that the average amount of men that a woman had sex with before marriage has almost doubled in the last 10 years from an average of 3.7 to now 7.7.

Personally speaking, I’ve had sex with more than 250 women and about 100 of those women have come from one night stands where I met the woman at a bar, club or during the day.

Casual sex happens a lot more than it used to and getting laid is easier than it has ever been. You really should embrace the fact that most women are open to having casual sex, rather than assuming that it’s only you who secretly wants to have sex or get laid. Even though they might not admit it to others when asked, most women are open to having sex on the first night, first date or at the very least on the second date.

The next time you meet a woman with the intention of having sex with her, remember the statistics I’ve just shown you. Don’t assume that she is an innocent woman would never have sex on the first night or first date. Statistically speaking, most of the women you will meet have already done it are happy to do it again!

Now, let’s look at the 5 things you must do to get a woman to have sex with you on the first night.

1. Make her feel sexually attracted to you

Attraction (noun): A quality that evokes interest, liking, or desire.

Sexual attraction: Attraction on the basis of sexual desire.

Most of the guys who struggle to get laid are those who focus on trying to get women to like them, rather than getting women to feel sexually attracted to them. For example: A guy will talk to a woman in a nice, polite way, laugh at her jokes and generally try to make her see that he is a good, trustworthy guy. He then hopes that she will somehow become interested in having sex with him on the basis of liking him as a person.

Yet, that’s just not how it works…

What makes a woman feel the desire for sex is sexual attraction and then the build up of sexual tension between herself and the man. If a woman doesn’t feel sexually attracted to you, she won’t want to have sex with you. She might like you as a person, but she won’t be interested in having sex with you. If you attempt to show any sexual interest or make any moves on her while she isn’t feeling sexually attracted to you, she will almost always reject you.

If you want to get laid for real, you must focus on making the woman feel intense feelings of sexual attraction for you. If you only make a woman feel mild levels of sexual attraction for you and instead focus most of your efforts on showing her that you’re a nice guy, she will usually play hard to get and make you work to earn a chance with her. However, when you make women feel intense sexual attraction for you (don’t worry, it’s easy), she will instantly open herself up to the opportunity to have sex with you or at least go on a date with you and then have sex.

2. Build sexual tension

Sexual tension: An exciting feeling that occurs when a man and woman feel sexual attraction for each other, but the escalation to sex is being delayed by them, the environment or circumstance (e.g. they work together, she is out partying with her friends and doesn’t want to look too easy in front of her friends by hooking up with him quickly, he is already in a relationship with another girl, etc).

To get laid with a woman of your choosing, you first need to make her feel sexually attracted to you and then build up the sexual tension between you to the point where she wants to release it with kissing and sex. You can build up boiling hot sexual tension between you and a woman within 3-5 minutes of meeting her, or take it slow and build it up over a few days or weeks (e.g. if you work with her).

When you build up sexual tension correctly, a woman not only wants to have sex with you, but she also feels like she needs to have sex with you. However, if there isn’t much or any sexual tension present between you, the idea of having sex won’t feel very appealing. If you do happen to have sex, it will feel awkward, forced and even boring to her.

While the physical sensation of sliding into her will feel great for both of you, it won’t be the type of amazing, emotionally charged sex that happens when a man and a woman release their built up sexual tension.

When lots of sexual tension is present, a woman will often throw herself at a man by kissing him first or by making it completely obvious that she wants to go home and have sex with him. If she can’t have sex with him that night due to circumstances (e.g. they are at a formal work function), she will begin hitting on him and making it very clear that she wants something sexual to happen between them.

It’s really cool how it works…

3. Make her feel sexy in your eyes

According to the Dove international survey on beauty, 96% of women do not consider themselves to be beautiful. Crazy, but true. When a modern woman compares herself to the Photoshopped images of women in magazine advertisements or to the sexy women in porn, she often feels insecure about her beauty in comparison to those women.

Almost all women you meet will act like they are confident and as though they believe they are beautiful, but most women (96%) secretly feel insecure about their looks and sexiness to men. These days, a big part of getting laid is to ensure that you make the woman feel sexy in your eyes.

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